Lately I’ve been facing some things in my life that have left me questioning “What IS happiness?”
I’ve posed this question to myself, friends, family, and even random strangers I meet at the grocery store, yet the only consistency I find, is inconsistency. It seems that the answer to this question varies depending on age, gender, ethnicity, health, circumstance, values and state of mind. Finally I came to the realization, “We’re just making it too difficult”.
I know for me, the definition of happiness really seems to change each year that I get older. Strange isn’t it? One would think it would be consistent our whole life through, alas in a complicated world…this just isn’t the case. All too often we get caught up in the “forces” working against our happiness, rather than focusing on the “light” that is all around us (Wow, that sounded very Star Wars didn’t it? lol). Anyways, for this very reason I jotted down 99 things that ALWAYS make me smile, to remind myself (and hopefully a few of you who read this) that the big victories really ARE in the little things.
After you read this post, I challenge YOU to ask yourself, “What makes ME smile?” I would absolutely LOVE to hear your answers, so please share your lists however big or small, in the comment section below. Consider it an experiment. What if we all shared a few things that bring us happiness and we manifested more happiness amongst one another in the process? Wouldn’t that be nice? I think so, we can all use a little warmth, right?
Ha…warmth, as in the sun aka “Soleil” over here beaming at her own goofy jokes…lol
Okay, so here’s my list…99 things that ALWAYS bring a smile to my face (A-Z):
- A child’s laughter
- A cool breeze on a hot day
- A full moon
- A fully charged ipod
- A passionate kiss
- Anticipation
- Arboretums
- Art
- Baby lambs (NOT to eat)
- Being loved
- Big funky rings
- Bohemian style
- Books
- Bubble gum
- Camping
- Candles
- Chandeliers
- Chapstick
- Chocolate covered raisins
- Clever wit
- Closing my eyes and seeing the one I love
- Coffee
- Crunchy pickles
- Dancing
- Exotic plants
- Faith
- Family
- Feeling especially productive
- Fireplaces
- Fishnets
- Friends
- Fully charged Blackberry
- Genuine compliments
- Good health
- Hats
- High heels
- Hiking
- Holding hands
- Hope
- Horses
- Hot tea
- Hysterical laughing
- Interesting lamps
- Journaling
- Karaoke
- Legwarmers
- Libraries
- Lip gloss
- Liquid eyeliner
- Little baby hands
- Little thoughtful acts
- Magazines
- Making handmade cards
- Making someone else happy
- Mascara
- Music
- My laptop + internet
- Nail polish
- New shoes
- Ocean air
- Old bookstores
- Old family pics
- Overcoming a fear
- Peanut butter and chocolate
- Phone booths
- Picnics
- Pillows
- Pottery
- Pumpkin anything
- Purses
- Quilts
- Refreshing rain
- Riding a bike along the beach
- Russian nesting dolls (matryoshka)
- Scarves
- Scrabble
- Silky smooth legs after shaving
- Sleeping in late
- Sliding down banisters
- Smiling so big it hurts your cheeks
- Spinning around as the tide rolls in
- Stroking a cat or dog
- Texts/IM/DM’s from that one special person
- The feeling of squeaky-clean teeth
- The scent of Burberry “Touch”
- The smell of freshly cut grass
- The smell of tanning lotion
- The sun
- Thrift stores
- Topiaries
- Trees in bloom – magnolia, cherry, horse chestnut and hawthorne to name a few
- Unconditional love
- Vintage photography
- Warm blankets
- Wine
- Writing
- Xanax ;)
- Yoga
- Zebras
Okay, your turn now…











