When Is Enough Enough?

How often do you find yourself looking around your little world and thinking “I wish things were different?” When you catch yourself thinking these thoughts, what do you do to take action?

Do you do anything at all?

Personally I am split down the middle when it comes to this dilemma. I guess what it really comes down to, is the dissatisfaction just a fleeting thought that comes along with a tough day, or is it a true displeasure in the course of your life’s path? In my opinion, if you truly are unhappy, it is your duty to fix it. Regardless of how complex the issue is or how long it takes to resolve the factors, it is still within your power to make things right. We all are given a limited amount of time on this earth to live, breathe and experience life to it’s fullest. Doesn’t that in of itself make it our duty to maximize our living experience?

Or is that selfish?

Maybe for some it is better to let things lie, and wistfully dream away at the could be’s life flashes in front of our eyes. Maybe reaching for more causes pain and suffering for others and that in of itself is enough to hold you back from taking action. Who’s to say what is right and what is wrong?

It’s a toss up.

I know for me, I’ve faced this crossroads many o’times and I can’t say that I’ve necessarily found that my actions were always best. But, one thing I can attest to, regardless of the trials and tribulations, the one thing that has always remained a constant is personal growth. With each new step that I take into the great unknown, I am tested, rewarded, punished and challenged.

Would I change any of my actions had I known the outcome?

No, I can’t say that I would. Because with each new endeavor that I take on, the more and more I evolve as a human being. I learn what it means to have hope, to love, to laugh, to cry and to soar. Life without hope is like trying to breathe without air. Once you lose sight of the wonder that exists within each and every day, the more and more blinded you are to life’s beauty.

Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed to any of us.

So shouldn’t we make each day count as if it is the last one? Because one day it truly WILL be.
Or is it?
I guess it’s up to you to decide.

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  • http://twitter.com/sbhsbh Steve Hughes

    This is deep…The problem with living today like it’s my last would probably lead to immediate death…but it would be fun…work hard, play hard…cease opportunities, and make it happen…love the photos in this piece…home run

  • http://about.me/sukhrajbeasla Sukhraj Beasla

    It really depends on the situation. I’ve had a lot of regrets over the past couple of years but then again I’ve realized that if I didn’t make certain decisions I wouldn’t be where I am now with the skills and knowledge that I have. I’d just be lost somewhere and I wouldn’t have what I truly wanted. I had to lose it all to get what I really wanted. It’s still hard to believe that but sometimes life gives you what you want by pushing you out of your comfort zone. Do I wish it were different? Yes, I do but then again who knows if I’d still have what I have..

  • http://lovehateadvertising.wordpress.com/ Mitch Devine

    I agree that if you’re really unhappy, it’s your duty (to yourself and those around you) to do something to fix it. Yet I also agree with Lincoln’s quote (a guy who had more than his share of trials): “Most people are about as happy as they choose to be.” Are those two ideas in conflict? I don’t know.

    To answer the question of when is enough enough? I’ll turn to the Grateful Dead: “Too much of everything is just enough.”

  • http://twitter.com/ShannonSmith Shannon Smith

    How we handle the ‘curve balls’ in life helps show our true character. Life’s a journey, stay on (or near) the path.

  • http://twitter.com/WriteOnOnline Debra Eckerling

    Stacey, your one way signs pointed in opposite directions really says it all – most people are constantly torn, not knowing which way is up. I say, when you don’t know which way to go, start by being good to yourself – that’s the best way to start moving forward!

  • Alison Stripling

    I don’t always do the right thing. But I try to fall forward or make progress. One word I like to think of during times like these: reinvent. I’m constantly trying to reinvent who I am and who I want to become.

  • http://socialhospitality.com Debbie Miller

    Great, philosophical post, Stacey! I don’t think there’s one over-arching answer to if and when you should act/respond to certain situations – it varies on a case-by-case basis.

  • http://xeeme.com/SallyKWitt/ Sally K Witt

    Great post, Stacey!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1027872075 Rick Clark

    I like how you let me go first. Thanks.

  • http://my168project.co Matches Malone

    There are different levels of selfishness. As long as you put others first, it’s okay to go second.

  • http://www.drdeadline.com Rick Clark

    As I read this, it seems that life’s choices are the issue, and how they effect your day to day mood is the concern. It’s easy to get lost in the process and lose sight of the goal.

    What comes to mind for me is what’s known as the Serenity Prayer, “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

    That’s worked really well for a lot of people.

  • http://www.drdeadline.com Rick Clark

    As I read this, it seems that life’s choices are the issue, and how they effect your day to day mood is the concern. It’s easy to get lost in the process and lose sight of the goal.

    What comes to mind for me is what’s known as the Serenity Prayer, “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

    That’s worked really well for a lot of people.

  • http://www.drdeadline.com Rick Clark

    As I read this, it seems that life’s choices are the issue, and how they effect your day to day mood is the concern. It’s easy to get lost in the process and lose sight of the goal.

    What comes to mind for me is what’s known as the Serenity Prayer, “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

    That’s worked really well for a lot of people.