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Twogether Is Better

This past weekend I had the honor of joining some of the top Mommy and Daddy Bloggers from all over the LA/OC area at a special Knott’s Berry Farm VIP event in Buena Park, CA http://www.knotts.com/. The morning started off with a lovely character breakfast/mingle session and then was followed by the stage production “Love Is In The Air, Charlie Brown!” The show was absolutely ADORABLE and if I was to guess, it was likely geared toward kids between the ages of 0-9 years old. I say this because my teens weren’t as captivated by the performance as my 3rd grader was. I was actually very excited because my 8 year old, Chloe, was invited on stage to perform with Charlie Brown and friends in front of the crowd. It was fun to watch her light up in on stage and bust a move. Hmmm, a future drama queen, perhaps? ;)

Once the show concluded, the families were invited to experience all of the wonders of the amusement park at their own pace. Since my family has a diverse age span, we decided to divide and conquer to truly maximize the park experience. My teenage son and his best friend headed off to enjoy the likes of La Revolucion, Rip Tide,  Supreme Scream and WindSeeker (For a full list of THRILL RIDES Knott’s has to offer, check out http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/thrill-rides). My middle daughter (age 12) took off with her Dad and rode Silver Bullet, Sierra Sidewinder, Montezooma’s Revenge & Jaguar! (For a complete list of Roller Coasters go to http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/roller-coasters). My youngest daughter and myself, spent the day in Camp Snoopy http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/children-s-rides enjoying the less “scary” rides and interacted with all of the fun activities that Knott’s put together for it’s special Valentines promotion. Chloe’s favorite attractions were the Hugging Booth, where the characters come out into the park and pose for pictures with the kids, and Cupid’s Craft Corner, where you can relax in the shade and make super cute crafts for your special “Valentine”. Chloe and I are less interested in all of the exciting rides that leave your tummy in knotts (Ha, pun intended), so we were definitely pleased to have a variety of activities to choose from to keep us entertained all morning and afternoon long.

Personally my favorite perks of the park were the Chocolate Dipping Station located in Ghost Town http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/dining#Ghost_Town and the HEART HEALTHY MENU featuring Char Grilled Mahi Mahi Fish Tacos, Thai BBQ Salmon Salad and the Mediterranean Chicken Wrap. I have been watching what I eat lately and I always CRINGE when I head out to amusement parks because I fear I will only have fried, fatty foods to choose from. So needless to say these healthy menu items made my visit enjoyable without completely ruining my dietary goals. Thank you Knotts!

While I was admittedly a guest of the park during this event, I was pleased to learn how AFFORDABLE Knott’s Berry Farm actually is these days. In fact, during the month of FEBRUARY (1st-28th) you can purchase online admission to the park for only $34.99 per ticket! And for ONE DAY ONLY (2/29/12 aka “Leap Day”), everyone gets into the park for only $29.00! If you have older kids and want a season pass, I noticed that the special rate is only $64.99 and during the month of February, season pass holders can bring a friend for just $24.99. Not too shabby considering how expensive all of the other amusement parks in town tend to be. It’s tough when you have a large family to invest in season passes to parks like Disney or Magic Mountain, so having Knott’s as an option is actually really quite nice.

Last, but not least, I want to conclude with a quick shout out to some of the talented bloggers I have been following online for years and FINALLY got a chance to connect with face to face thanks to this wonderful event.

@MomFluential
@daNanner
@RockinMama
@FieldTripMom
@NibblesNFeasts
@FourFlights
@DontSpkWhinese
@HowToBeADad
@KristenHowerton
@MomsLA

As ALWAYS, it was great to also see:
@Maryannewendt

@SparklingLaLa & @Cyuskoff

@Eva_Smith
 

@SuburbanMama

So nice to meet those of you I met for the first time, and the rest of you (@GigaSavvy @JoelTanner @MikeUesugi @CandaceCendana @Jimmywendt)…it’s ALWAYS a pleasure! -xo

Thank you again to @Knotts for this wonderful experience, I know our family will definitely be back soon.

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The Rules Of Rejection

There’s nothing quite like spending time with those you care about most. The feelings you get walking down the hall as you straighten yourself up in any reflection that you pass by, the warmth you experience when you set your eyes upon them for the first time in months, The overall giddiness that comes with simply wanting to have that “moment”. It’s all part of the magic of love. I honestly think if you don’t experience those emotions, there really is no love, it’s just going through the motions. I think you SHOULD be excited to see those that you care about, whether it’s everyday at 6pm when you walk in the front door, or if it’s your first time seeing someone in months. All of it is part of the package. That being said, I guess that all plays into expectation. I suppose if you expect a certain reaction and you receive something totally opposite, what then? Does the entire experience change from that moment forward. Perhaps. Or maybe it just creates an opportunity. It really all depends on how you look at it right? But for me, love has tended to come with expectation, and I’ve learned the hard way that isn’t the best way to operate. You have to let life progress as it will without trying to manipulate the outcome. After all, who are we to think we are in control? But along this train of thought came my epiphany. The thought that rejection spurs rebellion and that rebellion unleashes anger and anger leads to miscommunication, which ultimately leads to resentment. Which brings me back to the starting point.

REJECTION
We all deal with it, we all are a victim of it, yet do we realize how much we contribute towards it? I think not. I think we are so busy thinking about how we feel, that we don’t realize just how much our actions or lack of actions can bring forth feelings of rejection towards those that we love.
For instance, when you walk through the front door after a long day, do you leave your stress at the front door, but down your bag and smile at the faces you see once the door opens? Or do you barrel in like a lunatic and start ranting and raving about everything that feels inherently out of place in front of you? Does it occur to you that those actions stir up rejection in the people that are just wanting to say hello. Does it occur to you that maybe after a while those hellos will stop coming because everyone knows the reaction they will receive anyways? Do you realize that this pattern will lead to YOU feeling rejected yourself in the long run? It’s a tricky beast that rejection. It sneaks up on all of us when we aren’t looking.

THE SOLUTION
Take the time, the 5 minutes it takes to
STOP | SMILE | APPRECIATE
That’s really all it takes. Regardless of how busy you are, if you make the time to do those three things, you will avoid the windfall that rejection brings about. Is that really too much for any of us to do? I don’t think so. I think it just takes discipline. If you train yourself to respond a certain way, you are paving a much clearer path to walk upon. Consider it your daily pruning or pulling of weeds. You take care of it little by little as they pop up and you avoid a huge disaster that feels impossible to clean up. While we certainly can’t control everything around us, we CAN control our own actions. As flawed as we all are, we still have room to improve, to grow, to learn without expectation.

No Sex and the Suburbs [San Francisco Style]

Summer “Soleil” Solstice Digital LA Style

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Last night I made the trek up to Griffith Park Observatory to join the Digital LA crew for a summer solstice celebration. This event was great because it was a diverse group of folks and …Read More

The Twitteratti Shines @ The LA Weekly Web Awards

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LA WEEKLY WEB AWARDS – Photo Slide Show

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The web[kin] and Twitteratti were in full effect at the LA WEEKLY WEB AWARDS party that was held at the Bardot in Hollywood on Thursday. The venue was totally swank and full of libations, noms …Read More

#140Conf Meetup Santa Monica (Video Slide Show)

I always get excited when I hear Jeff Pulver is coming to town. It’s thanks to Jeff that I know SO many wonderful people in social media, and it is because of him that many …Read More

A SURVIVORS MixTape – Ima Be OK

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It seems there is a common theme of heartbreak floating around my circles these days. While it breaks me heart to see others in pain, and while I certainly know how it feels myself, I …Read More

What Happens In Vegas…Goes On My Blog

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Over the past year or so I’ve witnessed a phenomenon, that I just don’t understand…guys that look at a group of girlfriends as a lottery to get laid, rather than just picking ONE girl they …Read More

The Adjustment Bureau (a short review)

When I agreed to check out the sneak preview of The Adjustment Bureau, compliments of Universal Pictures and Klout, I didn’t even bother to watch the trailer before heading out. I kinda wish I HAD, …Read More

RECAP – STP at the Fox Theatre

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Besides the fact that it was east coast kinda cold on the night of this concert (and I was the dipsh^t who wore a skirt), I had such an incredible time at the Stone Temple …Read More

Mission Hipster

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Since yesterday was my gal pal’s bday, we decided to make a quick stop at  Las Perlas to have one of their famous margaritas since we also learned that 2/22/11 is National Margarita Day?! Go …Read More

♡ WORST Valentines Day Gifts ♡

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But FEEL free to get this for your favorite GUY Packer fan this Valentines Day..(Go Steelers!!!) ;)

Is LinkedIn the NEW MySpace?

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I do believe LinkedIn has officially become the MySpace of Networking. Between the constant spam you get hit with from your “Professional Networking Groups” , to these hokey, collage ads of friends that consistently shows …Read More

Happy Vibes

The Universe has been REALLY good to me the past week, almost like it leaned over to give me a big hug and kiss to make my hurts go away. I am finding that I …Read More

Has A Chipmunk Ever Flipped You The Bird?

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When I say f#%! you, it seems harsh and angry, but when a chipmunk tells you to go f#%! yourself, it makes me laugh, which is down right therapeutic. Thank you little rat bastards! ;)

Do You Spring Clean The Dirty?

RANDOM THOUGHTS If you died tomorrow, what would your family and friends find as they sift  through your belongings, searching for pieces of you to hold on to? Books, jewelry, clothing, unique collections? OR would …Read More

Beer Goggles, Hotel Bars…What’s the Difference?

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It’s 8:30am, I’m drinking my coffee and reading my Twitter stream, when my phone suddenly rings. I pick up and hear the voice of one of my long time gal pals (let’s call her…BAMBI) and …Read More

OC Blog Awards

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Warning…Even though I was nominated for BEST HUMOR BLOG, this blog really isn’t funny. No really…it’s more like me just babbling. In fact, if you want to stop reading right now, I would TOTALLY understand. …Read More