Category Archives: Motherhood

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Twogether Is Better

This past weekend I had the honor of joining some of the top Mommy and Daddy Bloggers from all over the LA/OC area at a special Knott’s Berry Farm VIP event in Buena Park, CA http://www.knotts.com/. The morning started off with a lovely character breakfast/mingle session and then was followed by the stage production “Love Is In The Air, Charlie Brown!” The show was absolutely ADORABLE and if I was to guess, it was likely geared toward kids between the ages of 0-9 years old. I say this because my teens weren’t as captivated by the performance as my 3rd grader was. I was actually very excited because my 8 year old, Chloe, was invited on stage to perform with Charlie Brown and friends in front of the crowd. It was fun to watch her light up in on stage and bust a move. Hmmm, a future drama queen, perhaps? ;)

Once the show concluded, the families were invited to experience all of the wonders of the amusement park at their own pace. Since my family has a diverse age span, we decided to divide and conquer to truly maximize the park experience. My teenage son and his best friend headed off to enjoy the likes of La Revolucion, Rip Tide,  Supreme Scream and WindSeeker (For a full list of THRILL RIDES Knott’s has to offer, check out http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/thrill-rides). My middle daughter (age 12) took off with her Dad and rode Silver Bullet, Sierra Sidewinder, Montezooma’s Revenge & Jaguar! (For a complete list of Roller Coasters go to http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/roller-coasters). My youngest daughter and myself, spent the day in Camp Snoopy http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/children-s-rides enjoying the less “scary” rides and interacted with all of the fun activities that Knott’s put together for it’s special Valentines promotion. Chloe’s favorite attractions were the Hugging Booth, where the characters come out into the park and pose for pictures with the kids, and Cupid’s Craft Corner, where you can relax in the shade and make super cute crafts for your special “Valentine”. Chloe and I are less interested in all of the exciting rides that leave your tummy in knotts (Ha, pun intended), so we were definitely pleased to have a variety of activities to choose from to keep us entertained all morning and afternoon long.

Personally my favorite perks of the park were the Chocolate Dipping Station located in Ghost Town http://www.knotts.com/things-to-do/dining#Ghost_Town and the HEART HEALTHY MENU featuring Char Grilled Mahi Mahi Fish Tacos, Thai BBQ Salmon Salad and the Mediterranean Chicken Wrap. I have been watching what I eat lately and I always CRINGE when I head out to amusement parks because I fear I will only have fried, fatty foods to choose from. So needless to say these healthy menu items made my visit enjoyable without completely ruining my dietary goals. Thank you Knotts!

While I was admittedly a guest of the park during this event, I was pleased to learn how AFFORDABLE Knott’s Berry Farm actually is these days. In fact, during the month of FEBRUARY (1st-28th) you can purchase online admission to the park for only $34.99 per ticket! And for ONE DAY ONLY (2/29/12 aka “Leap Day”), everyone gets into the park for only $29.00! If you have older kids and want a season pass, I noticed that the special rate is only $64.99 and during the month of February, season pass holders can bring a friend for just $24.99. Not too shabby considering how expensive all of the other amusement parks in town tend to be. It’s tough when you have a large family to invest in season passes to parks like Disney or Magic Mountain, so having Knott’s as an option is actually really quite nice.

Last, but not least, I want to conclude with a quick shout out to some of the talented bloggers I have been following online for years and FINALLY got a chance to connect with face to face thanks to this wonderful event.

@MomFluential
@daNanner
@RockinMama
@FieldTripMom
@NibblesNFeasts
@FourFlights
@DontSpkWhinese
@HowToBeADad
@KristenHowerton
@MomsLA

As ALWAYS, it was great to also see:
@Maryannewendt

@SparklingLaLa & @Cyuskoff

@Eva_Smith
 

@SuburbanMama

So nice to meet those of you I met for the first time, and the rest of you (@GigaSavvy @JoelTanner @MikeUesugi @CandaceCendana @Jimmywendt)…it’s ALWAYS a pleasure! -xo

Thank you again to @Knotts for this wonderful experience, I know our family will definitely be back soon.

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The Rules Of Rejection

There’s nothing quite like spending time with those you care about most. The feelings you get walking down the hall as you straighten yourself up in any reflection that you pass by, the warmth you experience when you set your eyes upon them for the first time in months, The overall giddiness that comes with simply wanting to have that “moment”. It’s all part of the magic of love. I honestly think if you don’t experience those emotions, there really is no love, it’s just going through the motions. I think you SHOULD be excited to see those that you care about, whether it’s everyday at 6pm when you walk in the front door, or if it’s your first time seeing someone in months. All of it is part of the package. That being said, I guess that all plays into expectation. I suppose if you expect a certain reaction and you receive something totally opposite, what then? Does the entire experience change from that moment forward. Perhaps. Or maybe it just creates an opportunity. It really all depends on how you look at it right? But for me, love has tended to come with expectation, and I’ve learned the hard way that isn’t the best way to operate. You have to let life progress as it will without trying to manipulate the outcome. After all, who are we to think we are in control? But along this train of thought came my epiphany. The thought that rejection spurs rebellion and that rebellion unleashes anger and anger leads to miscommunication, which ultimately leads to resentment. Which brings me back to the starting point.

REJECTION
We all deal with it, we all are a victim of it, yet do we realize how much we contribute towards it? I think not. I think we are so busy thinking about how we feel, that we don’t realize just how much our actions or lack of actions can bring forth feelings of rejection towards those that we love.
For instance, when you walk through the front door after a long day, do you leave your stress at the front door, but down your bag and smile at the faces you see once the door opens? Or do you barrel in like a lunatic and start ranting and raving about everything that feels inherently out of place in front of you? Does it occur to you that those actions stir up rejection in the people that are just wanting to say hello. Does it occur to you that maybe after a while those hellos will stop coming because everyone knows the reaction they will receive anyways? Do you realize that this pattern will lead to YOU feeling rejected yourself in the long run? It’s a tricky beast that rejection. It sneaks up on all of us when we aren’t looking.

THE SOLUTION
Take the time, the 5 minutes it takes to
STOP | SMILE | APPRECIATE
That’s really all it takes. Regardless of how busy you are, if you make the time to do those three things, you will avoid the windfall that rejection brings about. Is that really too much for any of us to do? I don’t think so. I think it just takes discipline. If you train yourself to respond a certain way, you are paving a much clearer path to walk upon. Consider it your daily pruning or pulling of weeds. You take care of it little by little as they pop up and you avoid a huge disaster that feels impossible to clean up. While we certainly can’t control everything around us, we CAN control our own actions. As flawed as we all are, we still have room to improve, to grow, to learn without expectation.

Orange You Glad?

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Teaching Our Children About Love

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Birds Of A Feather *DO* Flock Together – Movie Review of RIO

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Karma Police Are A Comin’

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How Future Friendly is Jane Jetson in 5″ Heels?

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My Super Power: Neutralizing The Smell of A**!

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What Clark Griswald & I Have In Common

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Adventures of Off Roading in a Minivan

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O.P.P (Other People’s Princesses)

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The Taper Caper

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My 13 year old keeps bringing up the topic of tapers, and in the attempt to be a good “active listener”, I’ve been listening to his stories and not adding in my two cents. Well, …Read More

Crash Course In Sneezing

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I’ve decided I need a chauffeur during allergy season… For the sake of EVERYONE on the road, I really think it’s for the best. Lately it seems like I can’t go anywhere without sneezing randomly …Read More

Douchebag Daddy Award

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Really? I mean REALLY? It’s one thing to be white trash enough to WEAR a t-shirt like that, but this tool took it to a WHOLE new level wearing  it around his kids? While she’s …Read More

Does This Make You Feel Zen, Baby?

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If you spent a few hours inside my head you would probably hear ramblings such as the following: (1.) Can I tell you guys that I am so friggen glad that I don’t abide by …Read More

The Scent of Childhood Hair

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As I was driving the kids to school this morning I had this crazy scent recollection of a shampoo my Mom and Dad used to use called PRELL. It came in this little green tube …Read More

OMG No,You DIDN’T!!!

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Yeah, I did…I bought a domain with the word SEX in it, but it was a total light bulb moment! Don’t get me wrong, I probably won’t even write about sex, but rather everything else …Read More